Hi Michela
At some stage I also had problems with Btmaps on Buttons, it is a bit different from your problem. I could not see the bitmap at all at Design Time but could see it in run time, which made it difficult to get the sizes etc correct for run time.
What I then found is the type of Bitmap was not supported. You get 3 types of bitmaps. A 16 Colour Bitmap, 256 Colour Bitmap and a 24bit Bitmap.
I had to change the bitmap to a 16 Colour bitmap to work everywhere. This is not ideal, as if you save a bitmap to a 16 colour you loose some quality in the image. But our image was a magnifying glass for a search button, so it not make such a big difference.
Hope it helps.