I’m agree that this message is somewhat not relevant for some users and yet it’s not open for configuration.But this is what we did before action menu was even available on older releases.
It’s change on how the users are triggering the proces by using a checkbox field or static lookup that represents the process and trigger it.
Not the ideal solution since users need to save their selection before the process start, and they missing feedback if the process started or not. So you will have to check if it’s feet you scenario. some creativity can enhance the expirance but remember that there is some limitations on automatically clear the trigger for re-using it later on the same instance.