You have more than 1000 agents, but less than 20 executions a day? That seems a bit off. Did you mean twenty thousand executions a day? Or 20 per agent, per day?
Either way, I can't give you much dependable sizing advise, since this heavily depends on too many factors. Generally, the more, the better, and since you will be using version 12 I assume (unfortunately you didn't mention any version information), I recommend putting AWI on a separate box, and giving that plenty of RAM.
Will install AWA through ONE- INSTALLER
I also warn against this. Im my humble, personal, indepentent and disclaimer-covered opinion, I'd still recommend doing an installation by hand for any production system. It pays to have done it, so you know how things "tick", and it might also pay to have it installed the way you want. The One Installer may have improved since I last looked at it, but from my previous experience, I still consider it useful for installing evaluations or sales demos, but would not trust it for production environments. But again, that's purely my own opinion.
Hth,